Side by Side

Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, one tucked behind the other, knees softly bent. A pillow between the knees or under the head keeps the spine neutral. It asks very little of either body, which is what makes it so easy to stay in for a long, slow while.

Closeness with almost no exertion, ideal when energy is low, or for a calm, drawn-out pace.

Slide a slim pillow under the lower partner's waist to keep the hips comfortably aligned.