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What 'body-safe' actually means, which materials to trust, and how to care for them so they last.
"Body-safe" isn't marketing. It's a real distinction. Non-porous materials don't trap bacteria and can be properly cleaned: high-quality silicone, stainless steel, borosilicate glass, and ABS plastic. Porous materials (jelly, PVC, "TPR/TPE" of unknown quality) can harbor bacteria and degrade. When in doubt, choose silicone from a reputable brand. Steel is the most forgiving of the group: a beaded stainless piece like Lovehoney's Firm Friend has nothing to degrade, cleans up completely, and takes to temperature play if you warm or chill it under the tap first.
Cleaning depends on the material and the motor. Most non-motorized silicone and steel can be washed with mild soap and warm water, and many are boilable or dishwasher-safe. Check the maker's guidance. Motorized and rechargeable toys are splash-resistant at best unless rated waterproof; wipe them down and avoid submerging the charging port.
A few habits extend everything's life: use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys (silicone lube can degrade silicone), store pieces separately so materials don't react, and let everything dry fully before it goes away.
- Planned Parenthood: sexual health, toy safety & cleaning
- U.S. CDC: hygiene & STI-prevention basics
General education, not medical advice. See our editorial standards.