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Lulexy 4 Italian Leather Bed Restraint Straps
Braise ratingHighly Recommended
Four full-grain leather straps that loop around your bedposts, each ending in a clip for cuffs. The simplest way to turn the bed you have into a restraint setup.
A vetted pick, chosen for the Braise catalog on merit, never for payment. Here's what earns it a place and who it's for. How we review
$80at Lulexy
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At a glance
- Type
- Restraint Systems
- Category
- BDSM Gear
- Price
- $80
- Sold by
- Lulexy
How it rates
How we vetted it
Vetted from Lulexy's product page for materials, hardware and sizing, and from the brand's product photos. We haven't used this set.
What works well
Each strap is full-grain, vegetable-tanned Italian leather, made to order in Lulexy's New Jersey studio, with metal O-rings and swivel snap hooks. They loop around the posts or legs of the bed and clip to any wrist or ankle cuffs, so there's nothing to install and nothing left on the bed when they come off. They come in three lengths, 18, 24 and 30 inches, to suit different frames, in black, red or green with silver or gold hardware.
Why we chose it
- Full-grain Italian leather
- Made to order in New Jersey
- Three lengths
- Nothing to install
In your room
Black straps with silver hardware disappear against a dark headboard; green or red with gold reads as a deliberate, handsome detail. Pair them with a soft blindfold and keep a pair of safety shears in the nightstand.
Pairs with
- Lulexy TANGO Blindfoldadd a blindfold
- Starting with restraints safelyguide
Skip it if
Your bed has no posts or reachable legs.
Who it's for
Couples who want to try restraint on their own bed, with materials nice enough to keep, and nothing that changes the bed itself.
Where it fits in the room
Picture it in a Modern Noir room.
The right piece lands better in a room that was planned for the two of you. Start from the Modern Noir look in the Room Designer, set the light and the layout, and see the space come together around it.
Design a Modern Noir roomScenes for a Modern Noir room
All scenesIdeas for an evening in the room style this piece suits.
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