Gifts for the kinky duo
For the couple who's curious about restraint, or already knows they like it. Soft cuffs and a blindfold to start, a few pieces for sensation, and the safety basics that belong in every set.
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A first set of restraints
Quick on, quick off, and comfortable enough to forget about.
- SportsheetsSportsheets Beginner's Restraints & Blindfold Set
Soft cuffs and a blindfold in one small set, the gentlest way to try restraint for the first time.
View at Wild Secrets$32 - SportsheetsSportsheets Under-Bed Restraint System
Straps that run under the mattress with a cuff at each corner, so any bed becomes a place for restraint play and the straps tuck away after.
View at Amazon - CraveCrave Icon Leather Wrist Cuffs
Leather cuffs with brass buckles that look like jewelry, so they can live on the nightstand instead of hidden in a drawer.
View at Wild Secrets$74 - FriskyDeluxe Black Out Blindfold
A contoured blackout blindfold that takes away sight completely, which makes every touch and sound feel sharper.
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Sensation
Light touches and small surprises, best with the blindfold on.
- Fifty Shades of GreyFifty Shades Adrenaline Spikes Wartenberg Pinwheel
A metal pinwheel for light, tingling sensation play: rolled softly, it wakes up skin without hurting.
View at Wild Secrets$20 - AmazonSoft Cotton Rope, 32 ft (Black and Red)
Two long lengths of soft cotton rope for beginner bondage, gentler on skin than nylon and easy to tie and untie.
View at Amazon - SportsheetsSportsheets Cuff or Collar
One padded band with a D-ring that works as a collar or a cuff, easy to adjust and comfortable for longer wear.
View at Wild Secrets$54 - Kama SutraIgnite Massage Candle, Vanilla Sandalwood
We use Ignite at home: it lights the room, then melts into warm massage oil you pour straight onto skin.
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Safety and aftercare
Shears within reach, something warm afterward, and everything clean for next time.
- Madison SupplyEMT Trauma Shears
Blunt-tipped safety shears that cut through rope or straps in seconds without nicking skin. Keep a pair within reach whenever anyone is tied up.
View at Amazon - Barefoot DreamsCozyChic Throw (Stone)
A very soft knit throw for the end of the bed, warm enough for lounging together and easy to wash.
View at Amazon - SliquidSliquid Shine Toy Cleaner
A plant-based toy cleaner spray to use after each session, part of a simple routine that keeps toys ready for next time.
View at Sliquid$16 - AmazonSatin Drawstring Pouches (6 Pack)
Soft satin drawstring bags that keep each toy separate and dust-free, so materials don't touch in the drawer.
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New to restraint? Our guides to starting with restraints and rope for beginners cover the talk, the gear and the check-ins.