Gifts for first-timers

A soft, bendable massager that molds to your body and fits in your palm, so it works for slow solo time or shared moments.

A small vibrator ribbed like a bamboo tea whisk, for a gentle, textured touch at a friendly price.

A simple, compact vibrator that makes a friendly first toy, with nothing intimidating to figure out.

A compact, flexible vibrator with two motors that bends to the body, small enough for solo time or to bring into sex.

A simple water-based lube that works with every toy material and rinses away easily, a safe everyday pick.

A plant-based toy cleaner spray to use after each session, part of a simple routine that keeps toys ready for next time.

Latex-free, ultra-thin condoms made from polyisoprene, a good everyday pick for anyone with a latex sensitivity. Use water- or silicone-based lube, not oil.

Soft satin drawstring bags that keep each toy separate and dust-free, so materials don't touch in the drawer.

We use Ignite at home: it lights the room, then melts into warm massage oil you pour straight onto skin.

A cordless, rechargeable mushroom lamp that dims with a tap, so soft light can move from the nightstand to the bath.

Jasmine and tuberose, the flowers that open at night, for a bedroom that smells like a warm garden after dark.

A mulberry silk pillowcase that feels smooth against the face and makes the whole bed feel like a hotel bed.