Gifts for him

A reusable stroker whose case opens flat like a book for easy cleaning, with pads on the outside to adjust the suction.

A vibrating ring worn at the base, so the wearer and a partner both feel it during sex.

A stretchy vibrating ring with a strong motor, worn at the base so both partners feel it, with app control for whoever wants the remote.

A flexible wearable vibrator for men with four motors, shaped to wrap around him for hands-free sensation during foreplay or sex.

A compact Bluetooth speaker with real bass and treble knobs, so the evening's music sounds full without a big setup.

The same plush robe for him, so the slow mornings and late nights are matched.

A walnut and linen bedside lamp that casts warm light at pillow height. Buy two for a matched pair on either side of the bed.

Smoky incense, saffron and oud for a room done in black and oxblood, where the candle should feel a little mysterious.

Helmut Newton's provocative fashion photography, a sensual book to browse together on a slow evening.

Julius Shulman's photographs of modernist homes, for couples who love clean lines and glass walls.

Hotels across the US to dream through together, for planning a getaway or borrowing ideas for home.

Chanel, Josephine Baker and Art Deco in one small book, with a Tamara de Lempicka on the cover.