Face-Sitting
Also called: Riding the face, Queening
Oral sex with the receiving partner kneeling over the giving partner's face, in control.
The giving partner lies on their back with a pillow under their head. The receiving partner kneels astride their head, facing the headboard or their feet, and lowers until they're comfortable, holding the headboard or wall for balance. The partner on top controls pressure and movement; the partner below sets the limits.
Oral sex where the receiving partner sets the pace and pressure exactly. Many people love the feeling of control on top.
Kneel with knees wide and keep some weight on them; hovering is easier on the partner below than sitting fully down.
Agree on a tap signal (two taps on the thigh) for 'come up for air', and use it freely.
The partner underneath must be able to breathe and move freely at all times. Never put full weight down, and lift off immediately at the tap signal.
A queening stool takes the weight entirely, so the partner on top can relax.
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Agree on it before you try it, use plenty of lube, and either of you can stop at any point. This guide is general information, not medical advice.